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It is no longer news that Nigerian students are pouring into foreign institutions in their numbers. Almost every Nigerian graduates nurse the ambition of doing their postgraduate studies abroad.
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You also have that ambition otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article at this time. Studying abroad has a lot of downsides and a major one is the culture shock. Culture shock is defined as a condition of disorientation that happens to a person who is suddenly exposed to an unfamiliar or strange way of life. This condition exists and is considered very serious, in fact most foreign institutions have experts employed solely to help foreign students overcome Culture shock.
Leaving home and traveling to study in a foreign country could be a very stressful experience, this could occur even after you’ve planned and prepared for this experience all your life, so do not be surprised when you face the impact of this. It is normal to experience this; it shows you are only human. It is however important to handle it the right way when it happens.
In an article published by the University of Washington, several factors were listed as contributors to culture shock. They include:
We will now discuss these factors one after the other
The climate and weather condition of foreign countries a widely different from that of Nigeria. Winter months are extremely cold that you would almost think getting warm is impossible, and then the summers could be so hot and humid that it’s almost affecting your health. These are conditions that your mind and body is not used to and it would take some time to adjust to it
Learning to speak and write in a new language is extremely tiring, unless you are especially talented, you would have to work extra hard and consistently to be fluent in it. You would often find it difficult to understand what is being said in the class, you’d also find it difficult to communicate effectively with your classmates. Even for English speaking countries, you still find it’s difficult because the intonation and accents defer. These are big adjustments to make and could contribute to culture shock.
Social behavior and times differ in foreign countries. Even here in Nigeria where we have multi-ethnic groups, you’d find that social behavior differs. For example, life is moves at a faster pace in Lagos than in somewhere like kogi. The difference is however on a large scale abroad, Public display of affection is a common social behavior in the US than in Nigeria. The first time you see a man kissing another man in the US could throw you such a strong curve ball.
Unfortunately most of these rules are not something you can learn by heart, they are mostly unwritten and you’d just have to learn it by experience. In the US for example, they do almost everything by scheduling, you can just up and go do something as simple and getting a hair cut in a barbing salon with out making an appointment, you won’t be attended to and if you do make an appointment and go late, you may not be attended to and you’d still be expected to pay full price for the hair cut you didn’t have.
As you continue with your study and stay abroad you’d soon come to realize that it is not just the material aspect of the culture that is different, there is also a difference in mindset, ideas and values, And some of the deep rooted values are not shared by people. You may have to take time to learn the values while not being judgmental. With time you’d get to understand, the difference in values and adjust yourself
This could happen either not you travel with your spouse. When you are the one traveling to do the study and your scholarship gives room for your spouse to travel with you, he/she may find it difficult to manage the transition well and settle in, she/ he is there with out a job, friend or family member, this would most definitely cause you some stress.
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And if your partner is stays back in Nigeria while you travel, there is the possibility of communication snafus for long distance relationships is difficult to manage
Having explained the factors that contribute to culture shock, what then can be done to handle it?
It’s important to note that, you could also experience what is called re-entry shock upon your return to Nigeria. This means that you may eventually settle into your new life and adjust to the extent that the culture you’ve known before you left Nigeria becomes strange or unfamiliar so that upon your return to the country you experience something related with culture shock.
When that time comes you will find a way to cope until you adjust, the human body is capable of adapting to even the most adverse condition.